So confused dating
Sometimes when a woman is vulnerable, she may be having a hard time letting go. She wants to know that it’s OK to feel what she’s feeling, and that you’re there to listen and to understand.So the next time a confused woman comes into your world, take the time to listen…don’t take the time to try and fix her.I want you to know that I do love you, but this really isn’t what I need or want right now.You were right when you said that I’m afraid to fall in love again.Move on and try to appreciate someone wanting to be there for you. That is a pretty big arena to stage your private affairs, but to each his/her own. Hard to tell what the history is between these two but it sounds like she is definitely confused about things. Anyways, it seems she is in that stage where she is trying to figure out who she is, what she wants, and THEN work on having a healthy relationship. But I actually had a relationship at the time and I thought I would have to break it off in order to better myself. I'm outtotally agreed guys/gals, tyler needs to just walk away, not matter how much he feel for this woman.Seems like she is young and was possibly in past relationships where she let the guy make all the calls and never really developed her own identity or sense of self. Well, here I am a better person and STILL in the same relationship. But yeah, she needs time to figure it out, like write the pros and cons of keeping him around. she need to find out what the fuck she wants in life and in a relationship, i've been through the same shit as tyler got a email similar when i was younger and totally naive in certain aspect of dating. i dont want to be harsh, but fuck her, who needs that bullshit.
At the time, I thought something was wrong with me or that I hadn't done enough to get him to commit. But maybe this is a blessing in disguise and its time for him to move onto a woman who is ready for the love he has to offer. women destroy it, for attention and attempted control.Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. I think you are so right in your response of how to handle it. Yea, this girl has apparently been emotionally scarred somewhere in her past.