Proper etiquette for dating a widower
Widowers are QUICK to rebound, to a point of being unseemly.The guy’s been married for 30 years, his wife dies in June and he started dating online 2 months later?Our relationship began online, and as friends, but when it was clear to us that this could be more, we deliberately took that step, kept moving forward and haven’t looked back. More widowed than will admit to it try to date at some point within the first year.Some people even begin dating with weeks or a few months.Anyone who is spouting rules and timelines at you has an ulterior agenda, and you are within your rights to question them and it. Even if you aren’t sure, meeting a guy or gal for coffee never hurt anybody, and enjoying the occasional Starbuck’s isn’t a commitment to anything.
I just read your book “Why He Disappeared” and really appreciated the great info.
The majority of men I met through it were varying degrees of depressing in their hunt for on-call girlfriends.