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“You might actually be more available, more open, more able to be with someone else as a result of this,” Dr. I also wonder if people mean it when they say they’re looking for “no drama.” Imagine “Romeo and Juliet” without the feuding future in-laws and “Brokeback Mountain” without society’s resistance to two men in love.
Or “Casablanca” without the return of Ilsa’s husband, not to mention the Nazis who frequented Rick’s bar.
They also found that 47 percent of millennial men said they were looking for no drama or something drama-free in their profiles, as did 25 percent of Gen X and 12 percent of baby boomer men. Although I’m an even-keeled person and daily meditator, I’ve still had to face challenges over the last eight years that I never saw coming and required all my strength to endure.
I understand that people want joy, laughter and happiness in their relationships. But when heterosexual men say they’re looking for something “drama-free,” I suspect they want something that doesn’t exist: a problem-free partnership with someone who has no life experience. After 23 years of marriage, I went through an unexpected and painful divorce.
“They could have just gone through a terrible divorce,” Dr. “They could have presumably been dealing with a lot of issues with their own families, with their children, with their ex-spouses, and they want something that doesn’t present any type of problem or issue.”Vanessa Valenti, co-founder of the feminist website Feministing, had a different take. This is simply another medium.” She added, “I think there are unrealistic expectations put on women to be accommodating at all times in their relationships.”Ms.
Are they looking for a woman who never gets angry or afraid or sad, who never worries about her family or struggles in her job? One man I came across online even wrote, “No drama given or allowed.” Aside from questionable grammar, this implies an ability to control life that none of us possess. Several people I love deeply suffered from addiction and found their way to recovery (a sentence that doesn’t begin to capture nearly four years of hell).
I had to sell our family home and move to a rental.
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