My daughter is dating a looser
Your daughter will come around, as long as everyone backs off, and lets her discover it for herself.When we try to force the issue, they try all the harder to prove us wrong, and it's an embarrassment for them when they discover we are right, so we have to be kind, and not say I told you so (too much! It will work out..might have to go through some rough patches until it does, but they will be a good learning curve for her, and she will be more careful the next time.All her friends told her he was a jerk, but when she moved out, she finally saw him for what he really was, dumped him and moved back home. I am hoping my daughter wakes up sooner than later. I tried to encourage her to save moeny to put money away and she would like but wouldn't show me her bank books. She should get a good dose of what being used is like now that she has to bear the brunt of all the responsibilities herself. It will be a good life lesson for her, and hopefully she will go on to make better choices in boyfriends in the future. I hope she sees that he is a master user/manipulator. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you, and hopefully she'll meet a doctor or lawyer at college!
He also needs to work in this relationship without meddling in order to learn to be a better man. I am so happy to read that things worked out for your daughter. My daughter's loser moved on to another unknowing young girl, and unfortunately got her pregnant. I pity that child, having the kind of father that is every mother's worst nightmare.She's just going to have to learn a lot of stuff about love the hard way.