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This can be all very enjoyable as long as you don’t take it to mean anything.
Yes, while a Mexican man may say he loves you, that he’s been waiting to meet someone like you, or that he’ll follow you anywhere, please be very skeptical if this kind of talk occurs within the first month or week of dating.
That said, here's my advice for non-Mexican women about what to expect. Don’t Believe Everything You Hear Foreign women might be delighted by the effusiveness of Mexican men.
While Western men seem unable to utter one romantic word at times, Mexican men have books of them at the ready to fling at you.
Be especially skeptical if this follows the first date, especially a date where you didn’t sleep with him.
So here we hit the heart of the matter – all these words mean he’s very interested in having sex with you, not spending his life with you. Actions, Not Words Mexican men who are actually interested in pursuing a relationship with you will follow up their effusive words with actions. Beware the Macho Man Unless you’re into that kind of thing.
From the color of your couch to the cut of your suit? In what kind of a world was your ability to make empanadas more important than your ability to make dollars? Dating a Latino means having a Christmas feast around the table the night before. You will hand out presents and chink glasses at midnight.
A Mexican man may just up and say what a Canadian (or American or European) man is thinking.
Traditional mindsets of inequality between men and women are global, my friends.
In other words, plans are flexible and subject to change. When she texts or calls you and says this, what she really means is, "I haven't gotten out of bed or showered yet, but I'm thinking about it." 4. And don't ask, because that gets awkward really quickly. Don't be alarmed if she introduces you to her family (parents, grandparents, cousins, and all) seemingly early on. Yes, this is a bit contradictory to the above point, and it may even seem a little unfair, but that's just how it is. It's kind of cute that you want to be able to speak to her in Spanish, but also kind of annoying at the same time when all she wants to do is enjoy dinner.
Don't call her 'spicy' or 'feisty.' Unless she uses those words to describe herself, in which case she may not mind if you do either. An ex-boyfriend once asked me if he could call me his "little tamale." I know I like to eat, but (a) no, and (b) WRONG COUNTRY DUDE. The sooner she gets you cleared by mami, papi, and the rest of the crew, the sooner she'll know whether she wants to keep you around or not. If you ask her to be a 1 at a wedding or big family affair too early on, she'll think you're getting serious, so if you're not, don't do this. A date's not the time to bust out the few phrases you remember from Spanish 101. But that said, if her family asks if you want to speak in Spanish while you're together, go for it. And if she's important to you, making a little effort goes a long way: It IS OK to ask questions or share a general interest in her culture or background; it's NOT OK to fetishize her or ask her "why Latinas always do [insert thing]?
Some Latinas grew up cooking, and others have started fires just trying to boil water, so if she suggests takeout or pizza, go with that and don't complain.