Im dating my ex wife
This falls under the category of parental alienation, when one parent tries to turn the kids against the other parent because of personal hatred. I even had an attorney tell me that “the new thing people are doing” is calling the police and reporting an incident of domestic violence (which is made up) before they even bring up the fact that they want a divorce. I have to believe a vindictive ex will at some point feel intense guilt by the cruel, destructive behavior or the lies they told–either consciously or subconsciously.So, their ex is already on the defensive from the start of the divorce. Or, they will just have self-hatred, which never leads to anything good for their future.With divorce can come anger, bitterness, jealousy, and badmouthing of an ex to friends, family, or the worst, to kids.But some men and women take the resentment and anger they have for their spouse to another level: a level that is lower than the lowest of the low, the scum of the earth, and they exhibit some of the most despicable, disgusting behavior imaginable. Like most other divorced people, the vindictive ex has resentment, anger and bitterness. A woman told her children “Your father doesn’t want me or you guys anymore. A guy told his daughter, “Your mom said you are a fat pig and you need to go on Weight Watchers.” 7. He or she spends time scheming and concocting a strategy to destroy their ex because that is the only way they know how to deal with their hurt and anger.If he's unwilling to talk every time you text him — we're talking ghosting here, not fuckboy text delays — he's probably over you. I would not recommend trying to get into contact with him at this point, unless you're willing to take on some tickets or a restraining order. If you guys are still texting everyday like you used to and just "using different labels," he's definitely not over you. If you guys text occasionally, but he is always starting the conversation, he is still into you.Similarly, if he's told you he's talking to someone else and not to contact him, he's done. If he's blocked you on all social media, blocked your number, or both, he's probably trying to get over you. Especially if he's sending you things that remind him of you, or asking you to hang out. If he responds to your texts but rarely starts a conversation, or if his texts seem short and lack emotional investment, it can be hard to tell what's going on. Are they statuses or photos that make him seem great — like shirtless pictures, updates on personal achievements, or just a general "Wow I am living a life I love! If so, he is probably making a desperate attempt to show you how great he's doing. If he always posted a lot, well first, why the fuck were you dating him?
Hopefully bad feelings fade over time, but that’s not the case with some people.
Like the time in the 6th grade you told Tyler you had a crush on him, and then he told the entire class you were…