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Try all sorts of simple domestic scenes, like washing your hands, complete with the sensations and sounds of warm water, slippery soapsuds and smells. Deliberately slipping into your visualisation will quickly stop your mind churning! So when you spot them you can start to react before things really start affecting you. When you find a visualisation that works for you, rehearse it until you can call it up with your eyes wide open and chaos all around you. Like in the small hours when you wake with all the troubles of the day churning through your mind.We also use this information to show you ads for similar films you may like in the future.Like Oath, our partners may also show you ads that they think match your interests.But when it comes to something like love, something like lust, that operates in signals, gestures, and the codified expressions of another person’s face, it becomes a complicated effort to communicate with even a partner of decades.
And above all concentrate your attention on your partner rather than on your own doubts and insecurities. Try it while walking from one hectic meeting to the next. Learning the skill of visualisation’s like practicing the piano. But suddenly it’s second nature, and your life will feel far less stressed.
Practice when you’re relaxed, like as you settle down to sleep.