Dating my spouse
They are both in it and that’s where they want to be. Trust in yourself that you’ll know when someone isn’t who he or she says they are.
Whereas women can sit down and have coffee and connect through conversation at an emotionally deep level rather quickly, guys typically do much better connecting emotionally when they are engaged in an activity.
The danger is that you can feel really close to someone who simply can’t live up to their description of themselves.