Dating larger women
I have experienced sexual assault and trauma in my life.
A lot of fat women have -- the ACE scores study suggest that at least some cases of obesity are biologically related to childhood trauma -- but I don't need you to psychoanalyze me, to explain to me why I'm fat, or to try and "fix" me somehow. I got over guys who wanted to sleep with me but weren't willing to be seen in public with me a long time ago.
They often come into a relationship believing that my past partners have been abusive or unfaithful, or that my current partner isn't interested in sex and that's why we're poly.
Basically, that he's arrived to save me from my terrible, sad, fat life.
Transit -- from buses and taxis all the way to airplanes -- can lead to downright hostile environments.
I don't know what the motivation is for guys who try to get me on their shoulders at concerts or attempt to lift me gently into bed.The problem came along when one the men I was talking to asked to meet me in person.