Dating a woman with children feelings
Because let’s face it, you’ll basically be their stepmom.Now, don’t overstep your role, but you’ll have to show her you’re not going to negatively affect their child’s life.So, no matter what, no matter how much your man loves you, he will put his kid first. Even if he cannot stand his ex, she’s still going to be in his and your life. You’ll see photos hanging of them on his walls, he’ll be making phone calls to her—that’s normal. So, they will be in communication with each other regarding their child.Honestly, if you’re reading this and thinking, “Well, he always puts me first over his kids,” then you should stop dating him. Again, if you have a jealous streak in you, lose it.The minute you have children involved, your plans never completely turn out as planned. If you wanted to go to the movies on Friday night, but the kids unexpectedly come over, well, scrap that movie date.
But if there’s one life jacket left, and it’s between you and little Tommy, well, you better know how to swim. You don’t have kids, so I understand that this isn’t easy to grasp, but, that child is literally a part of him.It’s an adjustment for not only you, but them as well.