Dating a man already in a relationship
This includes not talking to him, hanging out with other people or taking a different route around the office to avoid passing by his desk. Get distracted and reroute your passion for him onto something else. Try to push him out of your mind by getting involved in something that will keep you occupied, until your attraction for him wanes. Though it’s not the best solution, it can be the quickest one.
Go out there and be on the prowl for someone who’s single and interested in you too.
He might open up to you, so it’s best to be a shoulder he can cry on. However, whatever you do, do not try to seduce him in his vulnerable state!
[Read: 18 body language signs he’s into you] There’s a huge difference between being the girl with a crush on someone’s boyfriend and being the girl who snatches up the men in a relationship. The second one has a really bad stigma that you will carry with you for as long as you’re with the guy.
You have to know that if you try to make him fall in love with you, you might end up ruining his relationship with someone. [Read: 10 painful realities of being the “other woman”] #2 Double check if he is indeed with someone.
Social media can be the bane of someone who’s in love.
You may be in each other’s social networks, and that’s how you learned to fall head over heels for this guy.
If you see photos of him getting cozy with someone, try to do a little more research. He might only look like he’s taking pictures with his girlfriend, but they’re just pictures of him and a close female friend.
Sure, the relationship might only last one year, but if you live to 80, that’s still 1/80th of your life. I mean, how can you trust someone who won’t be honest about what they’re doing? If you can’t trust what they say, how in the hell are you meant to trust them? Let’s be honest; sex is just one part of many parts to a successful relationship.
[Read: How to fall out of love by hating them] #6 If they break up, think your actions through carefully.
First of all, you have to give the guy some time to recover from the breakup.
Here are a few things you can do: – Eliminate all contact.
We mentioned that you should keep your distance, but eliminating all contact takes it a step further. This is easy if you don’t see each other on a regular basis.#3 In proving that he is indeed taken, keep his girlfriend in your mind. You wouldn’t want to make an enemy of someone you barely know. You wouldn’t want to be the reason they’re torn apart, would you?