Dating a japanese american guy
The stereotype that Asian men aren’t masculine exists in a large part because of how they are portrayed in the media, not necessarily because that’s actually reflective of reality.
Myth 6: Asian guys aren’t good at expressing emotions. In Asian culture, males are not encouraged to be expressive with their emotions. For example, when a boy gets hurt and starts crying, it’s not rare to see the parents scold the child for crying.
Because this is engrained at such an early age, this may cause some Asian men to continue withholding emotion as they grow up.
It’s rare to hear traditional Asian parents say “I love you” to their children.
Theories explain that this dates back to the nature of Confucian teaching – where displaying one’s emotions publicly is not encouraged.
There is one thing both my wife and I have seen over the past several years and that is more and more mixed couples both here in Hawaii and in Japan.
Conversely the women of Japan have very small frames and an exotic look about them.
This is not unlike American men who struggle to meet women here in the United States.
RELATED POST: Where Can I Meet Japanese Women But, very interesting is the fact that when walking the streets of Kyoto, or Honolulu, there are in fact many mixed couples comprised of an American male and a Japanese female.
My friends question has been the topic of conversation between my wife and I, along with her Japanese friends, for quite some time.
I have noticed that many Japanese men really struggle to meet and date women from their own country.
Let’s take a quick look at some of the reasons American men seem to be the preferred choice for Japanese women.