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Scott Valdez, the founder of Vi DA (Virtual Dating Assistants) told me, "A guy who is looking to commit will put more effort into the image he's presenting on the dating app.If he's highlighting things like his career and the importance of family in his profile — and his photos don't make you cringe — that's a good sign he's boyfriend material." Everyone wants to put their best foot forward, especially when it comes to dating, but if his profile is full of his accomplishments and everything he loves about himself, it might be a red flag.She said, "Pictures that are primarily of possessions, selfies, half-naked, [flexing] in the mirror are all large indications that this person is not capable of having a meaningful relationship currently, or is definitely choosing not to, by only presenting a very superficial front." A good way to know that a guy is looking for a relationship is if he actually knows what he's looking for.A guy who doesn't just talk about himself in his profile, but also mentions what he's looking for, has given some thought to the kind of relationship he'd like to have, even if he doesn't come right out and say he wants a relationship."One of the things you're getting with a paid app is a more serious pool of daters," she said. This may seem like a no-brainer, but Sambrosky explained to me that many women ignore the simple red flag that a man has said he's "looking to have fun" or "looking to make friends" in his profile. " On the other hand, some men do come right out and say they want a relationship.
But then — maybe eight or nine or a million dates in — the question of, "Wait, what are we? Inevitably, you start to wonder whether it's time to call off that cat-and-mouse game or maintain a chill façade — I mean, how long should you wait to define the relationship?While different apps utilize different interfaces, varying requirements for messaging, and range from free to surprisingly expensive, they do share one thing in common: it can be hard to spot both the red flags and the signs someone could be a great match, from the profiles alone. I spoke to online dating and relationship experts as well as people who work for different dating sites to find out how to tell if a guy could be boyfriend material, based on his profile alone.