Bothering or intimidating weaker people
When you don’t listen to people, you can’t find out what they already know and what interests them.Leonard is a good listener and he attributes a lot of his success to this simple task. ” The result of too much self-promotion is actually the opposite of your intentions—rather than becoming interested in your projects, people won’t want to talk to you at all. ” You want to get to know people, and the best way to do that is to build a bond and/or connection early on. When you skip the small talk and get straight into the details of the business, people think, “Whoa, what did you just hit me with?I don’t care if it’s the CEO of your company, your dream girl/guy, or even a group of strangers in the audience at your upcoming presentation during the next staff meeting.The key is to remember (and believe) this: When you walk into the same room with them, Unfortunately, there are some less-than-positive characters out there who actually enjoy intimidating other people.
Whenever you’re on the wrong end of it, remember this: Stand tall and As awful as those physicians were, they didn’t kill me. I put it squarely in the rearview mirror and I refused to allow it to change how I view myself or my message going forward.In life, there will always be scary situations to overcome, comfort zones that need to expand in order for us to grow, and self-love that needs to be constantly reinforced in order for us to fully experience the best that life has to offer.