5 dating resolutions for 2016
Better to be hopeful, but also objective and realistic.
Anticipate how things can go wrong, and make contingency plans.
Your friends tend to rub off on you; as such, they can pull you up or hold you back.
Ask yourself: One of the big things that keeps people out of shape is social pressure from their friends.
Practice strategic apathy; reserve your energy for a small number of important things.
If it helps, don’t think of it as apathy- think of it as focus.7.
To get good at something, you need to love the process The people who get good at signing songs are those enjoy singing scales and doing warmup exercises.
The people who get really good at basketball are those who enjoy doing dribbling and layup drills.
The truth is, most of your friends probably are more popular than you, due to something called the friendship paradox.Most of us have, at some point, considered what we would do if we could travel back in time.Maybe we would give ourselves some hot investment advice and become millionaires, or change history for the better, or witness our favorite historical event.Analyse your failures and learn from them, without beating yourself up.4.
Never be dismissive of things you don’t understand If someone says “I don’t understand how anyone could like X,” what they usually mean is “X is stupid.” But surely your lack of understanding is a failure on your part?
Get comfortable not having an opinion It’s important to be able to justify your opinions, but not everything is important enough for you to put a lot of research into. Everything you care about uses some of your limited supply of mental energy.